Traveling With The Fur Kids!

I admit, my little dogs rule our house.  With all of our kids grown and gone, we need someone to mark the cadence of our days and these little miniature dictators are more than happy to keep us in line.  I travel a good bit in my role as a travel blogger and my husband travels a good bit on weekends in his role as a tennis line judge and referee.  So we plan our comings and goings around keeping the two little princes happy with at least one of us at home at all times.  Every so often we get a chance to go and take the pups with us—believe me when I say they understand the word “vacation”.

First we have to get down their suitcase.  I could carry their items in a paper sack, but seeing their suitcase in the middle of the floor allows me to get mine down and packed without having to hide it or having them drag items out of it.  I have been on several trips only to find underwear, socks, and more that I thought I had packed not there. Later I find the contraband under the bed or couch.  I guess they reason if they steal my stuff, I won’t go.  Here’s a picture of their suitcase—it’s top of the line—whereas mine is not so nice. 

The morning of the trip and everyone is excited!  Me, because I don’t want to leave anything behind, the pups because they don’t want to get left behind.  I know from experience to go ahead and put on their traveling harnesses—Button our younger dog has taken several unplanned “side trips” slipping out of his collar and running away as a puppy.  Once he went shopping in a gorgeous mall in Hilton Head Island, SC.  He wiggled out of his collar, followed a lady in the door and I spent a fun hour chasing him around.  Well, fun for him anyway. 

With the first trip by my husband to the car to load the few things we are taking with us (just a weekend visit to the Outer Banks); my older dog Gizzie trails him out and gets in the car.  We kind of expect this as he makes this his routine.  When we are packing, he just sits in the car waiting.  No matter what, he is going!

We are on our way to one of the two properties in the Outer Banks that allow pets. I think this is a sad situation-as vast as the Outer Banks that only these two properties accept dogs.  And maybe I am prejudiced since my dogs are fur children and very small—but really—two properties?  Anywho a story for another day perhaps—we check in and the kids are quite excited!  Look mom! our own little balcony facing the pool with a gate allowing them to stand outside and join in the fun.

Saturday of our visit dawns clear (finally after four days of constant rain) and the four of us hit the beach.  Even though dogs are allowed free rein on the beaches here, I keep mine leashed because of their size.  Labs, greyhounds, and darlings of undisclosed breed are out this morning with their people saunter by to the delight of my fur kids.  Babies playing in the sand are another thrill for my Button; although it’s always wise to keep an ubervigilant pose with babies.  Even the most amiable pup like my Button may get huffy when their nose and ears are pulled!

Later back at the hotel mom (that’s me you know) decides to take a dip in the pool for some water aerobics type exercise.  I know some terriers love the water; but mine are not of that persuasion.  When the desk clerk stated the dogs were not allowed in the pool I had to laugh—you couldn’t MAKE these babies get in a pool.  What they do however is hilarious.  As I walk or swim from one side to the other they run from one side to the other.  In a bit we are all pooped and ready for a nap. 

The weekend continues nicely with the pups spending most of their time at the fence bordering our little first floor veranda yipping and yapping at the new dogs coming into the pool area.  One toddler, in the pool with his dad, jumps out comes over; gives the dogs a pet; jumps back in and repeats the process about a gazillion times.  I am reading and watching amused—little boys and dogs you can’t beat that combination!

We are home now and the boys are sound asleep on my recliner, exhausted after their big trip.  For fun I ask, “did you boys have fun on vacation?”  Two sets of ears perk up and two little tails start wagging.  I take that as a YES! 

Sandy, The Diva Cruiser: Mardi Gras My Way!

Sandy, The Diva Cruiser: Mardi Gras My Way!

Mardi Gras My Way!

I admit it, I have always wanted to visit New Orleans during Mardi Gras, I mean it's an awesome city anytime of the year--but Mardi Gras, the ultimate in party!  And I am a party girl!  Right?  Well, honestly, no.

To be perfectly honest, I am somewhat intimidated by the whole thing.  I would love, love, love to watch the parades, wear an outrageous costume and mask (I actually want to make my own) and see what's going on firsthand.  But to be perfectly honest, I don't want to take my top off in public, I can't stay up for two days straight, I don't want to drink until I get sick or stupid, and it just seems a bit too much for me to really enjoy.  Isn't there a way to do Mardi Gras and still maintain my comfort zone?  Sure there is.

I have to actually give the credit for the idea to my friend and business associate, Connie George, from Connie George Travel Associates.  She has been working with a great group of people who, for a variety of reasons, wanted a more "family friendly" Mardi Gras experience.  So we decided to collaborate and open up a family friendly cruise to anyone.  And, should you, your family, or your group want to, we can arrange a post cruise stay in New Orleans with information on the family friendly parades and other activities.  SHEW! I feel better already!

Our Mardi Gras cruise departs on Sunday, February 27th, 2011  and sails for 8 days and 7 nights of cruising fun on NCL's Norwegian Spirit.  We will visit Costa Maya, Mexico; Belize City, Belize; Roatan, Honduras; and Cozumel, Mexico.  It also includes two fun sea days to explore all the activities and entertainments on the ship.  One of the most fun events will be our alcohol free masked ball only for the members of our group.  Alcohol is of course available throughout the ship, but all our family friendly events will be alcohol free.  In addition, we will enjoy a group shore trip just for our group in one of our ports of call.

Now is the time to mark your calendars and make your plans.  Call me today to make your deposit and reserve your place on this special sailing!

Click here or call me at 252-339-9614 or email me for more information.

Sandy

Bliss in Five Easy Steps!

I see articles, blogs, and Facebook posts by great coaches and intellects of all sorts describing the process of relaxation and bliss.  Most of these are awesome and I encourage you to check them out.  But for your consideration let me offer MY five easy steps to bliss and you only have to do it once a month!

#1 Find a suitable pedicure person in your area.  By suitable, I mean someone who suits your personality.  Who makes you feel fun and relaxed and able to relax and enjoy.  Now schedule an appointment for yourself for sometime in August.

#2 Dig out or buy some wonderful polish that makes you happy.  Forget what's stylish--express your personality.  I wear Opi's "Pompeii Purple"  which is actually a a dark shade of rosy pink with shine and glitter.  I wear it on my toes and fingers all year long and will until they discontinue it.  I got the bottle I have now on sale at Christmas for 1/2 off, which is always a plus.

#3 Look forward to your appointment all month.  Smile when you think about it.

#4 Keep your appointment, and totally relax while there.  Cut off the cell phone.  Take your iPod if you have relaxing music.  Breathe, smell, ooze down into that chair and just go to your happy place.

#5  Tip your therapist and make your next month's appointment!

See I told you it was easy.  And I always call it inexpensive therapy.  Now go find the Yellow Pages and make an appointment!

Peace, Sandy (the princess of pedicures)

Sandy, thedivacruiser, would love to help you find a great gal's getaway.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser and on her website http://www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.  Sandy is an independent contractor for Connie George Travel Associates.

Wondering About Water

Did anyone besides me wonder about the article on water in the August 2010 Woman's Day magazine called "Drink Me"? I have always read and heard that the more water you can drink the better (well within reason of course). And that drinking coffee and soda can be dehydrating. And drinking lots of water DID help with weight loss, contributed to good skin, and was the magic elixir of life. But according to this article, all these facts and long held beliefs are not so true. So what's the deal?

I remember vividly when the hue and cry came about that drinking water from your tap was a horrible thing to do for your health--drink bottled water was the battle cry. Since I had been drinking tap and well water most of my life, I was horrified and rushed to find the bottled water that I would purchase. Dasani was my H2O of choice--it was superior in taste to me--and bottled by the coca Cola Company which also bottled my Diet Coke. Naturally I didn't talk about that too much as DC was dehydrating and not PC anymore. 

Then I found out that Dasani (and more) bottled waters were merely tap water from another municipal source with a bit of chemicals thrown for good measure. What about lugging around all those big cases of water? I was furious--my tap water was from a municipal source? Geez! 

Now it seems that bottled water is totally bad for you and that the bottles are super bad for the environment. What idiots we were! But we were operating on the best knowledge available, or were we? Now I read an article that counters everything my old copies of women's magazines had to say? I want my money back!

Worst of all, it seems fishy that popular and even dare I say medical advise is attuned so closely to dollars and cents. Almost as if "if we can't make money from water anymore, we will tell the public they don't need to drink so much". ???

And could we be being manipulated about other things? Maybe nasty tasting green tea isn't as good for you as "they" say--could it be that yummy tasting old fashioned black tea is just as healthy? Who knows the truth and what will happen down the pike. 

Maybe it's just me--tell me what you think! And go drink some water!

The Bubble Burst

Recently, I took a great familiarization trip to Chattanooga, TN.  I had seen online that a historical steam powered riverboat was docked there and was now a unique hotel experience.  Since my sister and BFF was within driving distance, I booked a room and off we went.  While on board I met two different women's groups, including a group of ever flamboyant Red Hatters!  We had a great time and I have lots of ideas for women's retreats and fun times in the area.

This blog is not about the trip itself, however, but about the flight to and from.  I have been flying for 30 years and except for a few minor snags, have never had a real problem.  Once I made a mistake that cost me time and money; but other than that--things have gone very smoothly--actually amazingly smoothly.  On this one short flight LOTS went wrong--none of it my fault--but I paid the price in stress, wear and tear and time.  Both coming and going the first leg of the flight was late causing a mad scramble for my connection.  On the return flight, I had to literally run through the airport and tripped over my carry-on bag.  I made it with seconds to spare; and found out from my seat mate that the gate had been changed four times.  One lady I met while running told me she had been trying to get home to Norfolk since the night before, having experienced two canceled flights causing her and her son to have to stay overnight in a hotel and sleep in their clothes (their bags were lost).  Speaking of lost bags, my one and only bag was lost on the trip to Chattanooga AND home.  I was horrified at the prospect of spending the four day excursion in the same outfit and shoes sans makeup, toothbrush, and pjs.  My bag didn't arrive until almost 5 pm on the day following the return flight.  Two late flights, two mad scrambles, and two lost bags--all in one flight!

Throughout the experience I was disturbed, scared, and inconvenienced, and a part of me kept thinking--what if this happened to one of my clients going on a honeymoon, resort, or cruise?  No matter how carefully you pack, if you don't have your suitcase, what would that do to your vacation?  I noticed on the airlines website, information on what to do if your bag had been missing for 10 days.  10 DAYS?  DID that happen? apparently! By the way, the line to file a claim for a lost bag took us over 30 minutes to navigate.

What about my new friend who had to stay overnight because of canceled flights?  Who paid for that?  What would have happened if she couldn't have found a room, would they sleep in the airport?

And worse of all, what would have happened had I really hurt myself when I tripped over my case?  I barely made the flight as it was--what would an injury thrown into the mix have done?  What would happen to someone older, a little slower, or worse if someone got hurt in the mad scramble of an airport?

These questions have been rummaging around in my brain the past few days. In between legs of the flight, I tweeted and posted to Facebook about what was going on.  Since then, several people have chimed in and shared horror stories about unsafe conditions, delays, waste, and problems, many of which make my story look lame.

I have come to a few conclusions.  First, I am thankful I made it as long as I did without major flight problems.  Secondly, I am more energized than ever about making sure every client has travel protection.  Thirdly, I intend to file a complaint with the powers that be about my experiences.  What will happen?  I am not really sure.  Will it make a difference?  I don't know that either.  My intent is good, but my story is not unique--it happens hundreds of times a day every day if not every hour.  And that may be the worst part of all, that we have come to accept poor service, dangerous situations, industry wide apathy as the norm.

Keep the faith and blessings as you travel,
Sandy

  

How To Save Money on Drinks On Your Cruise!

One of the fun things about the first day of a cruise is the “sail away” party on deck. Cute, smiling waiters bring you gorgeous looking “fru fru” drinks in a tall, fun glass. First I guess I need to define fru-fru. You know those slush fruity concoctions with rows of fruit on a straw, cherries on a toothpick and a little umbrella in the glass. They usually have names like “mango-tango pineapple slush” and are everywhere when you arrive at the lido, or pool deck. These drinks are available in virgin, but you will need to ask your waiter—assume the ones already made up on the trays contain alcohol.

Many first time cruisers assume these beauties are complimentary—not so dear readers! Not only that, but they are usually presented in a souvenir glass or mug, which is not free either. I have seen people walk away and leave these glasses on the table, take it with you! I generally have one, including the souvenir glass and take it back to my cabin, rinse it out and take it home. Just one for me, but this is not to say if you want several of them as a set—by all means enjoy! I don’t think people realize the difference until they see their bill at the end of the cruise. Plus I don’t think people realize the difference a bunch of these will make in the amount of luggage they have to lug home. Fortunately, there are plastic souvenir glasses available too, so have at it!

Another thing that might save you money is the “drink of the day”. It’s on sale and is usually another fru-fru concoction. These are pretty cold and refreshing at the end of a shore excursion or a dip in the pool. Personally I am more interested in the “experience” of a new exotic sounding drink than I am by a quantity of alcohol, but again, to each his own.

To recap a few points:

• Fru-fru or other drinks served on board are not complimentary even the first day
• Ask for a plain glass to save a bit
• 15% gratuity is added to drinks


See you on deck at the sail away party; I will be line-dancing!  

Sandy

Sting Ray City! A Super Experience

One adventure not to be missed while visiting the Caribbean is a trip to Sting Ray City.  Maybe you are spending a week or two on the island or just enjoying a quick shore excursion while on board a cruise ship, either way, swimming with the rays is a lot of fun.  I  visited Stingy Ray City in Antigua while on vacation with my husband and once again while on the Enchantment of the Seas tendered outside Grand Cayman

with a group of women.  Let me tell you about the trip to Antigua with hubby, we had a blast!

We chose the excursion from a menu provided by the ship which rates excursions by time, activity level, and in this case swimming skill involved.  Carnival uses the "little walking man" to rate their excursions, the more little men, the more difficult and the more fit you have to be.  The stingray adventure was rated a 2, which was perfect for me.  We both swim well, but according to the rating, little swimming would be required.  The price of $50 per person was great as well.  Snorkle gear and refreshments were provided.  We booked from our stateroom through the tv and the cost of the trip was added to our sail card.  Voila!

Having never snorkeled before much less touched a stingray, I was pretty excited the next morning as we got ready to board the bus.  We had slathered on sunscreen, wore our bathing suites, and of course sunglasses and hats.  Our bus was almost full with a mix of young and old, couples, and families with kids.  Our ride to our boat took us through "town" and highlights were pointed out by our very funny and very pregnant tour guide.  When I asked her when she was due to have her baby, she said 3 days ago.  That's a pretty strong work ethic in any country, but I digress from the story!

We arrived at our destination which from the front appeared to be a private home.  We were escorted to the back where four open motor boats stood ready.  We boarded the boats and were off!  Approximately 20-30 minutes later (who wears a watch, it's island time) we arrived at a sandbar with a floating dock which we tied up to. After scrambling out of the boats we were given a few directions by the handlers who would be in the water with us.  My husband practically raced in, and I eased in and in no time the water seemed full of black shadows under the water. (See them in the picture above) With a closer look, I could make out the rays--eerie and beautiful at the same time.  The water was about 4 feet deep with some areas less--parents with older children seeming to have no problems.  The rays would bump you and then wait as if they wanted to be petted.  One of the handlers told us this was a retirement home for old rays, but them seemed pretty lively to me.  We were given the opportunity to feed the rays and then look through them with a snorkel mask.  Since I can be a scaredy cat about new things, my husband held my hand while I tried my first snorkeling.   Even though it was in shallow water and in a controlled situation--I felt pretty proud of myself! If you haven't seen the blue of the waters of the Caribbean, you haven't seen blue--the color was amazing! 

After an hour or so, we loaded the boats and headed back to shore.  Refreshments had been set out with cold "koolaide" punch being handed to all the adults.  Honestly it was punch pink, but it carried quite a "punch" of a different sort.  I switched to water to be sure I didn't miss the nice dinner awaiting me on board by having a hangover headache.

The trip took about 2-3 hours from start to finish and did not require a lot of heavy activity.  The adventure was not appropriate for small children and would not be advisable for persons having problems climbing into or out of the boat or going up or down the small ladder going into the water.  For us it was a wonderful trip, an adventure with nature that I can recommend wholeheartedly.

Until we cruise again,

Sandy, the diva cruiser

 Sandy, thedivacruiser, is in reality Sandy Wheeler, an independent travel consultant for Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow Sandy on her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser or on her website www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.  Email Sandy for more information on this or any of her other blog posts.  

What Carrie Bradshaw Can Teach Women About Sparkle!

When Carrie kissed Aiden while vacationing in Abu Dhabi, I was SO aggravated with her.  Yes, I am talking about Sex and the City 2; I saw it a couple of weeks ago on a perfect girl’s night out— pedicures, dinner out, and the ultimate chick flick-a great time.  I was upset because like many of the faithful I had followed the “girls” as they made their way through the perils of dating in New York City.  Carrie, in particular, had a tough time finding true love with her guy, John Preston, aka Big; finally marrying him at the end of the first movie, Sex and the City 1. 

After nearly two years of almost wedded bliss, a few tiny blips had begun to surface on the radar of the Preston marriage.  Just like women everywhere, Carrie and Big had to work on their marriage to keep the “sparkle” going.  When John came home from work tired and wanted to skip an important social event to veg on the couch with the remote, Carrie was livid.  Girls, I mean who hasn’t felt this way?  Whether we live in a sleepy rural community or the city that never sleeps, men and women go through this same song and dance everywhere all the time. Girls how do we keep the SPARKLE between ourselves and our hubbies?

One thing I have found helpful (and I think Carrie, Charlotte, Samantha, and Miranda would definitely approve) is to recommend that women keep their friendships with other women close and up to date.  It’s tempting with all that women have to do-mother, homemaker, wife, and a productive member of the workforce—to skip the time and effort it takes to remain friends.  I find that when I am involved with my gal pals, be it a simple dinner out together, or a luxury vacation in Abu Dhabi, I am happier, more content, more willing to work on that all important relationship with my spouse.  I feel better about myself and that translates into a better feeling toward everyone around me.  Time away with other women gives me perspective, and the sharing of laughter, fun, and most of all support is welcome and necessary.  And of course there’s the old saying “if mama ain’t happy, then nobody’s happy!” 

Have fun and keep the sparkle going girls!

Sandy

Sandy, thedivacruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler an independent travel advisor for Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruisier or on her website www.SandyWheelerTravel.com

Need help arranging your girl's getaway travel?  Email with questions, it's WHAT I DO!

Wild Women Afloat on the Tennessee River

Every year my sister and I take a long weekend away together and just have fun.  It's something we both look forward to greatly: we bond, we laugh, but mostly we just relax.  We have had some "complications" in the past couple of years--both my children decided to get married two summers ago and her daughter graduated from high school last year--no expenses there right?  But this year we were right on track with our planning, with the Gaylord Resort in Nashville being our choice for this summer.  I have never been but always wanted to and looked forward to sharing it with her and then with you, my readers.  Unfortunately Mother Nature decided to nix that idea with the Resort as well as significant parts of Nashville experiencing extreme flooding and damage.  So I got out my pile of Southern Living Magazines, (otherwise known as the "bible" for Southern travel, gardening, decorating, and entertaining) and lo and behold there was a newish article on my sister's hometown, Chattanooga, TN with several really cool hip and historical things to see and do right there.  So our plans have changed--we're going for an adventure on the Tennessee River!

Our first destination is an overnight stay at the Delta Queen.  The Delta Queen was the last surviving steam powered paddle boat to carry passengers overnight until just recently when she was docked  in Chattanooga.   The Delta is so significant, she was inducted into the Marine Hall of Fame.  I didn't even know they had such, did you?  We can stay in a passenger cabin with private bath and luxurious sounding linens and appointments.  I am a sucker for high thread count aren't you?  In addition to unique, historical accommodations, we are going to enjoy paddle boat type evening entertainment, just as passengers have enjoyed for decades.

As well as fun times and a great room, a complimentary breakfast is served to guests each morning.  A floating bed and breakfast, how about that?

To finish off our Tennessee River adventure, I think we should take a dinner cruise or a daytime sight seeing cruise on the Southern Belle Riverboat that operates up and down the River.  A great dinner, scenic views, music, dancing--you don't get much better than this.

I will keep you posted on our trip which takes sail in mid-July.  I'm pretty excited as you can tell and will be full of descriptions and pictures when I return.  If you are a local, please send me pictures or recommendations of things to visit in the area--I am always on the look out for fun things for the gals!

Until later, Sandy

Sandy, thedivacruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler, an independent consultant with Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser or on her website www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.

When I Grow Up I Want to be a Golden Girl!

I am really going to miss Blanche Devereaux.  I’m going to miss Rue McClannahan, too, She was a beautiful woman with a lot of talent.  But Blanche, well Blanche was my heroine.  A smart, sassy, stylish, sexy woman who loved life, her friends, and yes—she loved the men!  As a Southern woman trying to be any or all of these, Blanche was a true Southern belle and one of my favorite TV characters of all times.  Not since the likes of red-headed Flo from Mel’s Diner has a Southern woman captivated our ideas of what a strength and beauty in one package should be.  Although Blanche never had a catch phrase to rally behind like Flo’s “Eat My Grits”, she had plenty of identifying characteristics that made me like her.

• Blanche fought against aging with every fiber of her being.  She wanted to be young in body, mind, and spirit and often tried out new sports, activities, and ideas.  She knew staying young was an inside job.

• Blanche had a signature sense of style in her clothing and accessories.  She dressed well to please the latest fellow in her life, but to also please herself.  She seemed comfortable in her clothes and confident about her looks.

• Blanche loved her gal pals and went to them for advice, comfort, and a sense of family.  Sometimes it looked like she might sell them short to please a new guy, but in the end she always came through for her roommates and girlfriends.

• Blanche had a career she loved and appreciated.  She volunteered to help the less fortunate and benefitted from a full, well rounded life.

Yes, I am going to miss dear Blanche.  Fortunately for us, the Golden Girls seem to always be in season on Lifetime TV.  Her antics will always be fresh for the next generation of Southern girls looking for a heroine.

Fiddle de dee,  Sandy    

Sex and the City 2--Samantha Didn't Get Her Due!

Of the 4 gals on Sex and the City the one that I identify with least is Samantha.  She is the one I probably laugh at the most, I wonder what she is going to do next, but with my beliefs, upbringing, and personality, I just don’t see myself in her.  One thing I do admire about her is her commitment to her business and ability to rise to the top of her profession, while still “having a life”.  The reason for the ill-fated (and expensive) trip to Abu Dhabi was the Arab businessman who had observed her success as a public relations executive and was eager for her input on his upcoming projects. Eager enough to give in to her request that the “girls” go too and to spare no expense to impress her, he treated her as a business force to be reckoned with. I think the movie did the character of Samantha a real disservice and here’s why.

Ms. Samantha Jones, New York City PR maven, would never travel to a country and culture uninformed.  This was the start of what could be an extremely lucrative deal; and as much as Samantha loved a good looking man, she also enjoyed money, respect, and power in her chosen profession.  No intelligent person traveling to another part of the world for the first time would arrive so blindly unaware of what was required in terms of conduct and behavior.   Even in a menopause induced frenzy (been there, felt that) she knew better than to create the kind of dangerous situation she involved herself and her best friends in.

Didn’t she have a travel professional for her business and personal travel?  She has the best of everything else money and power can buy, who makes her travel plans?  Could I volunteer?  Had I been her travel advisor, I would have made sure she knew the rules of behavior, particularly between men and women in public.  Knowing Samantha, I would have been very firm with her—she does love her men!

No, the movie didn’t give Samantha credit.  For all her free-wheeling ways, she was still super intelligent and uber successful.  And yes, I know it’s just a chick flick, never meant to make a statement or be taken too seriously.  But, the business woman, 50 something, travel advisor in me couldn’t help but notice.  Maybe next time I can play the part of the intelligent, elegant, but fun loving side kick!  Show biz here I come!

Happy travels, Sandy

Sandy, the diva cruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler, outside travel professional for Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser and on her website www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.  Email Sandy for comments, questions, or just to say hello.   

The Best Cruise Line for YOU!

I am often asked the question "which cruise line is BEST?"  I always have to laugh, because this is a tough question to answer--I always answer back--define BEST.  Best price? itinerary? entertainment? food? accessibility? casinos? what is BEST?


Accessing your cruise needs are similar to writing a good news article.  There's the who, what, when, and how of it all.  Let's take them one at a time.  


WHO is sailing?  You and your hubby? You and your family? Family reunion? Gaggle of gal pals? WHO is sailing makes a lot of difference.  The who involves your interests, hobbies, and activity levels.  Will you be happy swimming with the dolphins, ice skating at sea, or just lounging by the pool?  Are you an experienced cruiser or a first timer?

WHAT do you want to, see, visit, and explore?  Do you have a special place or climate in mind?  On one cruise, I knew without a doubt I wanted to see a particular beach in St. Thomas as a shore excursion.  What do you want to do on board?  If you have your heart set on a surfing simulator or rock climbing at sea, you  are limited to the number of ships you can choose.  You need to think about WHAT you want to experience.


WHERE are you willing to go to board your ship?  Depending on your location, you may have to drive a long distance or fly to make your cruise happen.  If you choose not to travel, you could be limited by where you live.  Ships are traditionally stationed in certain ports and stay their until the season changes or larger/smaller ships are brought in.

WHEN do you want to sail?  The time of the year, season, or even holiday makes a big difference.  Going during spring break season?  Expect to see a lot of college students on board.  Think it would be cool to spend Thanksgiving on board?  Yes, it would, but you can expect to pay more.  Remember too, that certain itineraries like Alaska and New England are only available during certain seasons and fill up quickly.

Lastly, after deciding on all of the above--HOW much is your budget?  Do you have a realistic idea of what a cruise will cost?  With prices averaging $100-300 a night for accommodations, gourmet food, and entertainment galore--cruise prices are great vacation values. How much are you willing and able to spend?


When you talk with me, I will ask you all of these questions.  I try to match the client with the best fit of all of the above criteria.  By thinking on these questions and making a list of anything else that might be important to you--we can find the perfect fit just for you!


Call me and let's talk about your who, when, where, and how.  I will do my best  to match you as much as possible with the best cruise line and sailing to fit your needs.


Happy sailing!


Sandy


Sandy, thedivacruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler, independent contractor for Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser and on her web site www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.  Questions are always welcome click here to contact Sandy.


Photos are #1 Me onboard Celebrity. #2 Clients swimming with the dolphins onboard Royal Caribbean; #3 Line dancing on board Princess; #4 Hubby and I on pink sand beaches onboard NCL; #5 Hubby and I swimming with the stingrays onboard Carnival.

The Airport Shuffle

I love to line dance--it's super fun and good exercise.  The exception maybe what I call the "airport shuffle" --when you ride an escalator to get to another escalator to get to a monorail to get to an elevator and on and on.  But such is the reality of modern day airports, it's part of the dance.  The bigger the airport, the longer the dance, and like a line dance, it's easy to get out of breath.

Another modern day reality that makes the trip longer is, of course, the security check in, which seems to get more elaborate every time I fly.  I laughed out loud when the TSA took my rolledup tube of toothpaste.  As a travel advisor, I spend a good bit of time reminding people what to pack.  I keep a cosmetic case packed so I can grab and go, but my last trip was to a resort and didn't involve flying.  OOPS! note to self!  never assume!

But in the few seconds (which stretched out a l---o----n----g time) when I realized my bin of stuff was being pulled aside and I was being called over-- my thought was OH NO, SOMEONE PUT SOMETHING IN MY BAG!  I had never let my bag out of my sight, but still eek!  I wasn't exactly sure what would happen in this situation but I was pretty sure I wouldn't make my flight, among other things too scary to mention.  When she held up my toothpaste and said she would have to keep it, well as I said, I laughed. 


So to recap, just a couple of points that might be of interest.

• Keep your eyes and hands on your bag at all times.  Don't trust anyone you don't know, no matter how innocent they seem.  Check out reruns of NCIS or rewatch the Mission Impossible movies for examples.  Plus, hey, it's Mark Harmon and Tom Cruise-never time wasted!
• The 3 ounce carry on rule applies to liquids AND gels.  Toothpaste IS a gel dear readers!
• Don't argue with the nice TSA's.  They are there for your protection and just doing their jobs!

Happy and safe travels, Sandy



Sandy, the diva crusiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler, and Independent agent of Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser or on her website http://www.sandywheelertravel.com/.  Email questions about this or any of her blogs, she loves to hear from readers. 

It's What We DO!

This weekend my daughter came to visit and while we were hanging out and chatting, she said “Mom, I could turn your living space around and give you more room”.  Having no talent in this area, and anxious for more room; I said sure. In fifteen minutes she had my husband and hers pulling out the furniture, end tables, and even the piano. The end result was a better look, a cohesive and cozy look, and much more room. When I exclaimed on the transformation, she cut her eyes at me and smiled “it’s what I do!” She is a professional interior designer so maybe I shouldn’t have been so surprised?

Another thing that surprises me is when intelligent, busy executives try to book their own travel. I’m the first to admit there are plenty of click and pay sites out there that make it easy to do. My question is why? We don’t cut our own hair or change our own oil; everything is very specialized these days. We all do what we are good at and hire out what we aren’t good at. Like my hodge-podge of decorating styles, people blunder their way thru vacation and business travel hoping everything comes out making sense. But again, is this the best way to leverage one’s time?

I think people have two misconceptions that lead them to try to book their own travel. One is the old description of “travel agent” which leads them to believe they are paying the agent on top of the trip cost. So in an effort to save money, they try to do it themselves—often missing out on good deals and information that the modern day travel advisor could help them with. In reality, most travel advisors are paid by the resort, hotel, cruise line, etc. that they book with. This is not always true, so be sure to ask; but largely the advisor’s commission is not paid by the client.

Secondly, I have found clients assume using a travel advisor takes more time. This is just not true; in fact, using an advisor takes less time as they do the searching, evaluating, and compiling of information. You will need to “meet” with your advisor initially in person, by phone, or email and outline what your needs are. She will ask questions such as time frame, budget, likes, dislikes, health issues, and other considerations. I usually narrow down my proposal to the client to 3 choices, often breaking it down from a multitude of sources, giving the best fit for each client. I pride myself in giving personalized and specialized information that will meet the needs of my people with as little intrusion into their time as possible.

Yes, I am a travel advisor—it’s what I DO! Let me help you utilize and manage YOUR time as well as get you the best price and fit for your travel needs!

Happy travels,


Sandy

Sandy, the diva cruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler, an outside agent for Connie George Travel Associates.  Email her for questions about this or any of my blogs and follow her on Twitter @thedivacruiser, or on her website: www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.

Cruise Question SOS-What About Those Sail Cards?

Question:

Dear Diva Cruiser:  What do I need to know as a first time cruiser about those sail cards.  I know they act as my cabin key, what else do I need to know?  Signed Excited About My Vacation in Georgia.

Answer:

Dear Excited in Georgia:  You are so right!  The sail card IS your cabin key, but it's very much more--it's your key to the kingdom if you will.  Unlike the flimsy paper electronic keys used in many hotels, this card is made of credit card material--and should be treated with the same care as a credit card. 

The sail or embarkation card may contain any or all of the following information: your name, ship, date of your cruise, dining time and table, ship's phone number, your lifeboat station, and a folio number.  This is your "money system" on board as well as your identification and must be carried at all times whether on board or ashore.  In fact, the first thing you will do after leaving the check in station at the port is present your sail card to the staff member at the entrance to the gang plank.  Your card will be scanned and you will be officially ready to sail. 

Once on board all your purchases and activities will be charged to your sail card.  On newer ships, even things such as gambling use the sail card.  Personally, I like the sound the nickels and quarters make when hitting the slot, but that's my thing--so back to your question. :)

Your sail card is VITAL when planning to go ashore.  You cannot leave OR return to the ship without your card, so please use care.  You will need a picture ID to go ashore (driver's license) as well as your sail card.  Also once ashore, you sail card does not work as currency unless you are in a port such as Labadee, Haiiti, which is a Royal Caribbean property. You will need to carry a credit card with you for dining and shopping while on shore.  This is also one of the few times you could need cash depending on your plans.

I hope this answers your question dear sister in Georgia.  Yes, your sail card is your cabin key and a whole lot more!  Keep it safe and keep it with you!

Until later, email me if you have questions about this sail card blog or any of my other blogs.

Happy cruising!


Sandy

Sandy, the diva cruiser, is in reality, Sandy Wheeler, Independent Contractor for Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twiter @divacrusier or on her website http://www.sandywheelertravel.com/

Cruising Question SOS-What About My Diet Coke?

Growing up I never acquired a taste for coffee.  Maybe because my parents drank so much of it, maybe because I am just a bit wierd, but for whatever reason, I just can't stand the taste.  So needing to get my "jolt" from somewhere, I turned to diet coke.  I drink it for breakfast and need a couple to get the neurons firing in the morning.  It's like you probably are with your coffee--I don't prefer it--I need it!  Funny but two or my three sisters are the same way.  You should see us at family gatherings, each packing a 12 pack of diet coke under each arm, trust me I have pictures!

So when clients ask me about the availability of their favorite (and necessary) soda on board their cruise ship vacation, I completely understand.  After all, it's not as if you can pop by the 7-11 and stock up in the open sea.  So let's address this question and  see what's available, what's free, and what's for sale.  Here we go:

• Coffee, tea, iced tea, water, are free all day
• Milk and juice are free during the breakfast hours
• Soda is available by the glass at the bars, dining room, pool, and theatre for $2-3 each,
• Alcholic drinks are available at any bar, in the dining room, pool, and theatre $5 and up
• "Drink of the Day" are daily specials and can be made virgin if requested
• Fountain soda cards can be purchased on most cruise lines for $6 per day adults, $4 children (approximate)

The soda fountain card is what I always get--first thing--at the "sail away" party!  (I always get a fruity ptooty sail away drink too, but that's another story).  Considering I drink at least 3 sodas every morning and a gingerale with my evening routine, it's well worth it.  Plus I just like to relax with my diet coke while reading out on the pool deck or having popcorn with the movie out by the pool.  So the soda fountain card saves me a good bit of money. 

A couple of things to remember!  All prices are for example and not a contract.  Prices change, usually going up, these are the latest I found today and vary a bit by the particular cruise line.  Secondly, drinks whether sodas or alcholol brought to you by waiters are subject to a 15% gratuitiy.  Lastly, not all lines may have the soda fountain card, so you will want to check with your travel professional or check the line's web site.  Fortunately for me, most do!

Now sit back, kick off your shoes, and enjoy your favorite drink!

Until next time, keep the questions coming!  Email me here with your question: sandy@cgta.com

Sandy

Sandy, the divacruiser, is in reality, Sandy Wheeler, an independent contractor with Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser or on her web site www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.  Have a question about cruising or one of our trips?  Email Sandy  at: sandy@cgta.com. 

A Brand New Series--The Great Shrimp and Grits Survey of the South

As a lifetime Southerner, there are some things I just take pride in.  Our beaches, mild winters, friendliness, culture, great cities and small towns; I love it all. 

One of the best things is our food--fried chicken, red eyed gravy, church picnic potato salad, barbeque, and green bean casserole are the stuff of Southern culinary legend.  A particularly Southern item that is probably misunderstood is the classic dish of shrimp and grits.  First, let's dispel one myth.  The grits used in shrimp and grits are not your typical grits most of the country thinks of when the name "grits" is mentioned.  These grits are especially made for this dish and have an altogether different consistency and taste than anything you may have experienced with products from the grocery store straight out of the microwave.

As a true fan of this uniquely southern treat, I decided to work my way through the south sampling shrimp and grits.  I have had shrimp and grits in Savannah and Charleston--the holy grails of southern cuisine and most people assign the origins of shrimp and grits to one of these. I want to find lesser known locations; the small town take on the subject. At the same time I will be reporting on some interesting bed and breakfasts, resorts, and other accomodations that you may not have even know exist.  I know it's a tough job, but as always, I am willing to take one for the team--you gals my readers! I appreciate your  input, and if you know of a lovely local spot that serves a great shrimp and grits--send me an email.  I would love to hear from you!  Well, I better go to the gym, all this delicious food--I am going to need it!  Until my next installment--happy eating!

Sandy

Sandy, the diva cruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler, independent contractor for Connie George Travel Associates.  She can be reached for comment on this or any other of her blogs at sandy@cgta.com.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @divacruiser or www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.

Reading Labels Can Save You Money!

Label reading has become a passion of mine while trying to eat more healthy food, lose weight, and keep my blood sugar under control.  It's amazing the things you can learn about processed foods, they almost all contain too many chemicals, too much salt, and too many carbs.  A real reality check--if you haven't started reading labels, I recommend you do it, you will be surprised!

These however, are not the labels this blog is about.  Recently, I took a gander at the ingredients list of my cosmetics line.  It's a great line and I enjoy using it BUT the ingredients list on my toner said "witch hazel".  Witch hazel was the only active ingredient.  Everything else was inactive--fragrance, etc. I say again, the only active ingredient was witch hazel!  Worse than that, I was paying $39.50 for witch hazel!  Good smelling witch hazel; in a pretty bottle; but none the less, plain witch hazel.  Geez!

I immediately hit the web and found that witch hazel was an active ingredient in several toners, some costly, some not.  I then went to my local Walgreens and looked at the witch hazel selections.  The kind I chose was Dickinsons.  It cost me $5.95 for a net savings of $33.85 per bottle.  As I probably use 3-4 bottles a year--well we are looking in a savings in at least $100 a year! WOW!

Now I am known for being an advocate for women pampering themselves.  In fact, I insist on it.  But, there's a difference between pampering ourselves with a superior products and spending money for no good reason.  Go into your cosmetics storage area right now.  Examine the labels and do some research.  Throw away any items that are over the expiration date; particularly eye items like mascara and shadows which can harbor germs.  See if you, like me, are overpaying on any items.

Need a suggestion for the extra money you can save?  How about using that extra as your downpayment for our October, 2010 Chicks at Sea ladies cruise?  Visit my web site or email me for more information.

Now go read some labels!

All the best! Sandy

Sandy, the diva cruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler an independent contractor for Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser and on her website www.SandyWheelerTravel.com.  Email me for more information about our Chicks at Sea ladies cruise. 

One Step At a Time OR Plodding is a Good Thing!

One day last summer a new  woman showed up in my pool aerobics class and seemed to be working very hard for a newbie.  Being the busy body I am (I like to refer to it as "friendly") I asked about her and we were all told that she was indeed new to the Y, and was scheduled to get married soon and wanted to shape up.  Since most brides feel this way, I thought nothing of it until she further replied her wedding was only 2 weeks away!  I was floored as were the other members of the class as she mentioned her dress was too tight and she needed to lose 20 pounds in these two weeks to fit into it.  And that she intended to take at least 5 classes that DAY!  Since she was at least my age, I thought "she's going to kill her fool self"  but her enthusiasm was not to be shaken, even though our instructor tried to make her see that fitness and weight loss was achieved slowly over time.  I don't think I ever saw her again, but the lesson has stayed with me.  Some things don't happen overnight and are best done a bit at the time OR plodding along.

One thing I think fits this same principle well is spending money on travel.  Some people enjoy the thrill of finding a last minute trip and plunking down their cash and heading out! That's super and if you are of that mindset, call me, I always have last minute trips and cruises ready to book.  But for me and a lot of people, well we may not have a lot to cash to plunk.  Or enough leave from our employment, or quick-as-a-flash childcare available.  But with the right planning--especially financial planning, almost anyone can take the trip of their dreams.

So to help all those planners and plotters, Connie, (our esteemed leader) came up with the idea of a "payment plan" for our trips and cruises.  Two such trips where this would work well are my New Orleans at Christmas escorted bus tour or the Chicks at Sea cruise.  Pay $200 down this month and $100 a month (or more you decide) and pay until you are all paid up! With New Orleans coming in at $879 and Chicks at Sea 5 day ladies cruise prices starting at $500, it won't take long to make your trip a reality.  Plus to me, part of the fun of a vacation is the anticipation--you will have a few months to savour your trip--all paid for without taking too much out of the budget at one time.  I will be happy to work for you on a payment plan that suits your needs.  I will be delighted to help you join the ranks of the planners and the plodders--it's a good thing!

Happy travels AND happy budgeting,

Sandy

PS Just IN!  We have an absolutely fabulous value on board Holland America Line cruise ships.  Book during our Cruise Sale and receive an exclusive Onboard Value Booklet valued at $354.  Sail anywhere--these onboard services will enhance your voyage!   

PSS  Sail on our Chicks at Sea voyage and have dinner every night with Sandy the Diva Cruiser herself.  Have your picture taken for free!  Chances like this to mingle with celebrities don't come along every day!

Sandy, the divacruiser, is actually Sandy Wheeler, Independent Contractor for Connie George Travel Associates.  Follow her adventures on Twitter @thedivacruiser or on her web site: www.SandyWheelerTravel.com